Conversation, with few words

(screenshot: from the movie “Paris, Je t’aime”) 


Conversation is the main cause of conflict
or maybe discussion
to often consists of monologues only.

often people isn’t talk “with” each other, but “to” each other
in English language there’s probably no difference
called both “talking to each other”
but there is a world of difference

the same can be said for listening
“I hear what you say” or “I know what you think”
we often hear or use – but is that really true
isn’t it often, instead what was believed that was said
or even not listening because we think we know what would be said
so we might as well focusing on what we would say ourselves afterwards

silence of the listener need not always mean attention
perhaps it’s to breathe
or to concentration, about what or how we will interrupt


It’s a shame
ability to find words is amazing
every language has great potential
and there are many wonderful language.

Just look at this statement:

the last 2 are first the chinese character and then next the message from the flowerbed 

It still go wrong
so the best is perhaps
either touching each other,
or say it with a photo.